tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1704170106558126102.post-7572926806319125712008-05-06T18:48:00.000-04:002008-05-06T18:48:00.000-04:002008-05-06T18:48:00.000-04:00Oooh, yes. I especially struggle with the "my partner does XYZ, then I should too"<BR/><BR/>With the cake I eat but didn't want, I try to promise myself a postponed treat. As in, rather than have this cake (which i DESERVE, damn it) I'm gonna take a wildcard to be cashed in when I do want a treat. The good thing about this is that I usually forget about it anyway (weren't we talking about memory recently? I forget..) and end up better off in the end.Katehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10479870851404533253noreply@blogger.com